"No matter where you are now, where there is a will there is a way"
Stuck?So was I and then... I decided to change it.
Stuck?So was I and then... I decided to change it.
At 41, I found myself heartbroken, unemployed and homeless. Upon reflection, that was one of the best things that ever happen to me. But trust me when I say, it did not feel good as I was walking in the dark.
Losing everything, that up to that point had made my identity, forced me to look inside because everything on the outside was crumbling at my feet. I had to believe that there was more to me than the things I was literally being forced to leave behind.
I was determined to find a way to be ’ok’ again, not only be ok but to thrive. I was relentless. I needed to understand why all of this was happening to me and what I could do to change it, to live the life I always knew I was capable of.
I learned that “Life doesn’t happen to you, it happens for you” and an amazing journey of self-discovery started for me. A journey more incredible and joyful than I ever could have never imagined.
Every amazing person has stumbling moments that define who they are meant to be
Every amazing person has stumbling moments that define who they are meant to be
Not everyone has this ’perfect score’ moment that changes everything, nor would I recommend it. In order to get everything you ever wanted, the only thing you need to do is: know what you want, believe that it is possible and available to you and be ready to do whatever is necessary to get there. I call this “faith in the yet unseen”.
Our fears, worries and insecurities keep us trapped in a life that doesn’t make us happy. Relationships that do not work but feel secure, jobs that we hate but pay the bills, friendships that take more than they give but make us feel popular,…the list goes on and on and on.
To get to the life you dream, there is no other way than getting rid of all of those fears, worries and insecurities. The biggest obstacle to that is that most of them are hidden within you. I learned the hard way (which I do not recommend), that in order to complete the first step of getting rid of fears, worries and insecurities, you need to find their root. That is what I call your limiting beliefs. When those came to light, half of the work is done.
Do you want to find yours? I have more information for you here.
Live your life by design, you can create anything your heart desires
Live your life by design
As I armed myself with the deep understanding of who I wanted to be and the hurdles keeping me from being exactly that, I got to work. I made a promise to myself that, sure as hell, I wasn’t going to break. I was going to have it all: my perfect relationship, my perfect job, my perfect apartment,… and when I say perfect I meant, the perfect for me, which might very well differ from what is perfect for you.
Define what is perfect for you. Imagine how would it be, taste or feel. It is an amazing exercise of the imagination. This feeling will become the desire that powers you through the process of changing. Hang on to that perfect image, have it stuck in your head and then you are going to convince yourself you are capable of being, doing and having everything you desire.
Here comes the key: You need to convince yourself that it is possible and that is available to you.
Let me tell you, that part is simple but most definitely not easy. All your limiting beliefs come to the aid of that voice that keeps lying to you, sometimes even shouting that “you can’t have it”. Again, that voice LIES. So in order to get through it, you need to reprogram your subconscious mind to accept those changes and be ready to do the work.
Do you want to know how to do it? I wouldn’t leave you hanging, would I? You can find more information here.
Ready for the magic to show up for you?
Ready for the magic to appear?
The most incredible thing that I realized on my journey was that whenever I desired something and I allowed myself to have it, things kept appearing. I imagined the perfect apartment at the right price point. It appeared. I imagined someone to help me hang the shelves. It appeared. I imagined the perfect course I wanted to attend. It appeared. The moment I made a decision about something, a perfect bridge of incidents opened in front of me; to lead me exactly where I wanted to be.
So, I decided to test the limits of what I could manifest into my reality and what was the best and most effortless way to bring it to me. That is where I started to play with manifestation techniques. I have to say, that part was so fun and easy that I would recommend it to anybody and everybody.
It is an incredible feeling to realize that you are loved and supported no matter where you go. That everything and anything is available to you on command. The best part, there are no limitations as long as you believe it is possible and you allow yourself to have it.
If you want to know more, here you can see what this manifestation stuff is all about. I can tell you this. The limitless power is the greatest reward for all of the hard work you have done.
It is not over until is over! there is no much to create
It is not over until it's over
When I started this process I did it because I needed to find answers. I needed to understand. But as I walk on this path, I know that I am always amazed by what is possible. And I realize that there is no end to it.
What you want and desire will evolve over time. Circumstances will change, passions will shift and you would find yourself, as I do, evolving, moving through the levels and enjoying life as you never imagined it was possible.
My only wish is that if you, like me not so long ago, need information to get yourself started, you find what you are looking for here. Also that you, like me, work your ass off to get where you want to go, with determination and resilience and that someday, somewhere we will meet again.